I worked into an executive position when females were not expected to be more than secretaries. Even if they got an executive job, they usually got their own coffee. I didn’t know they were going to take over!
No matter how hard we try, we can’t change mother nature. Now, don’t get your panties in a bunch, men chase women and they like to be caught. Actually, I think since Eve, we have plotted and planned the entire mess. To many women, I would have an “old fashioned view” but if you remember you are a GIRL you can easily win this battle.
Men like us more than we like them. Personally, I like men and always have. I have three grandsons and I want them to be happy and successful and find good women for themselves. What worries me today is, what is a good woman? Do young girls know?
In my day a good woman was honest, smart, respectful, kind, caring, had a good sense of humor, attractive (even the animals look for the most attractive mate) and willing to let a man FEEL like a man. Hey, she was superwoman! You’re a woman, so easy to do. Don’t get confused with Life and Career, work is important but it’s not the most important. Your life is, don’t define yourself by your career, you are way more than that!
If you liked a man you dressed for him, you wore his favorite perfume, you cared about his thoughts and you expected him to treat you like a LADY. Personally, I like to feel cherished and I think everyone can have that, but it’s not automatic, you have to work at it! Everything in life is a challenge, it’s what makes us get up everyday.
Take a look at the people who have it easy..see all the trouble they get into? It’s a goal for every woman to be loved, wanted and appreciated….CHERISHED. Earn it, you want a good man don’t you? GO GET HIM AND DON’T EVEN THINK OF ENTERTAINING A MARRIED MAN. If you think about yourself first (as you should) you will see, people bring their own heartache for the most part. Get the man who wants you and then enjoy him, IT’S THE SECRET TO LIFE! (At least one of them)